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Women We Love - Andy's Trip Edition: Jadyn (2 of 4)
Andy Borgmann with Jadyn and Asher Mills in December 2008

The second in the Women We Love - Andy's Trip Edition isn't a woman at all, but a beautiful young girl: Jadyn.

Since Jadyn graced our lives over three years ago she has changed my outlook on life so much - and she isn't even my kid.

For the past 8 days Jadyn has been my alarm clock. And if waking up to a beautiful woman who I get to sleep with is the best way to wake up, waking up with a beautiful young girl saying, "come on Uncle Andy, let's get up and play" has got to be an extremely close second.

The usual morning routine involves playing a quick game of hide and go seek, which transitions into a game of tag, and then ends with some version of dolls in her bright pink room.

The other day after tag, she was getting out her dolls and I decided to try and steal a quick moment to check the iPhone for email - which is usually literally the first thing I do in the morning (before even getting out of bed).

But as she sits down by me with dolls in hand, she looks up and sees me checking the iPhone.

She responds, in the sweetest little girl voice, "Uncle Andy, can you not check your email right now and just watch me play."

I respond, "Of course."

As I sat and watched her play, I thought to myself how important - regardless of age - it is to have people who are there just to watch us play. And sure, as we get older, "play" becomes a bit different. Play becomes work. Play becomes being a husband or wife. Play becomes raising a family. Play becomes serving our community. Play becomes a whole slue of things.

But we all need support in the things we do. We need people in our lives that essentially "watch" what we do and give us the encouragement and support that we are valuable and what we are doing is valuable.

Jadyn will grow from a young girl I love, to a young woman I love, and finally to a woman I love. And I will always be there to watch her play - no matter what that play entails. And I am grateful for those who have and continue to watch me.

Now back to playing dolls...
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CJ Mills
Thursday, January 1, 2009 09:30:47 AM    Quote Selection | Permalink
Gravatar.com great post dude - I've thought about the same thing many times. I get the sense that my excuse "I have to work" has become something she hates to hear. This is something I hope to remedy in 2009.


The Last Cainanite
Thursday, January 1, 2009 11:30:21 AM    Quote Selection | Permalink
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The usual morning routine involves playing a quick game of hide and go seek, which transitions into a game of tag, and then ends with some version of dolls in her bright pink room.


I sure hope your attitude toward "hide and seek" with toddlers is a bit better than that of Louis CK (relevant bit starts at 1:30).

Play becomes work. Play becomes being a husband or wife. Play becomes raising a family. Play becomes serving our community. Play becomes a whole slue of things


And hopefully play never ceases to be play as well.

By the way, one of the things I hate the most is people watching me when I do something. So I guess I am a counterexample.



sarah
Thursday, January 1, 2009 03:10:55 PM    Quote Selection | Permalink
Gravatar.com Andrew Borgmann, that was the sweetest post I've read in a long time! I don't think I've ever thought, "ahhh, what a sweet guy" while reading your blog before, but I just did! Jadyn is lucky to have such a great Uncle!


Erik
Thursday, January 1, 2009 07:26:35 PM    Quote Selection | Permalink
Gravatar.com Sweet guys sleep alone.


The Last Cainanite
Friday, January 2, 2009 12:47:14 AM    Quote Selection | Permalink
Gravatar.com Classic Erik. Now, based on all your posts, I am sure there is a woman in your bed every night then... ;)


Andy Borgmann
Friday, January 2, 2009 10:25:07 AM    Quote Selection | Permalink
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The Last Cainanite said in comment # 5...Now, based on all your posts, I am sure there is a woman in your bed every night then... ;)
You just wait for tomorrow's post (Saturday's post, not Friday's).

The Last Cainanite said in comment # 2...I sure hope your attitude toward "hide and seek" with toddlers is a bit better than that of Louis CK (relevant bit starts at 1:30).
This was hilarious!



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Andy's blog aims to be like a Scrubs episode, mixed with a Chuck Klosterman column, centered around the topic of faith. It is open, honest, raw, and a little embarrassing. It is a place to discuss religion, politics, ministry, pop culture, and well, just life - especially focused on the time of life we call our 20s!

Andy is the Executive Producer of The Allen Hunt Show; a progressive (in the literal sense), talk radio show based in Atlanta, GA aimed at bringing faith back into the public discussion. Andy enjoys travel, aviation, web design, politics, friends, and faith. He holds that the secret to a full life is loving God and loving people - which he fails at constantly.

Andy grew up in Fort Wayne, IN. He now lives in Alpharetta, GA.

More information about Andy can be found at www.2timothy42.org or Andy's Facebook.

P.S. As has been mentioned on air, Andy is horrible at grammar and spelling. Please excuse any mistakes, trust me, he's sorry.



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