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Today was a first: I spoke at a career day at a local private academy on what it was like being a radio producer on arguably one of the top five secular talk radio stations in the world. The morning was interesting, the kids seemed intrigued, and of course, it got me thinking. It got me thinking about how we get where we are.
Oddly, my thoughts drift to an ex-girlfriend named Emily. Emily was a very smart girl. I don't have a shadow of a doubt that she won't be a success. I haven't talked to Emily since graduation so it has been six years, and she is about the only ex-girlfriend of mine I haven't stayed in touch with. But I hear from time to time that she is still pursuing the law thing and she is at the University of Virginia Law School.
What cracks me up about Emily's choice of career is its genesis. We had to put on a mock trial in a 9th grade English/Social Studies class for, if I remember correctly, the Nuremberg trials. Emily's tactic in cross examining my witness was what would be classified as "badgering the witness," and in a real court wouldn't have been allowed past the third question. But needless to say, this wasn't a real court, and she "stuck with it enough" to impress our English teacher - who definitely wasn't a lawyer (and frankly a little crazy). But Mrs. Walker complimented Emily and told her she did a great job, and well...the rest is history.
But here's what is funny, even though I kind of chuckle at the genesis of all this, I can't help but think that there are few people that would make a better attorney than Emily (and if there is something I know it's attorneys as I can count at least 8 attorneys in my family and another dozen or so friends in law school and as my friend Lissa says, "I just need to accept the fact that I am an attorney and go to law school already" because of blogs like these).
It's funny how very very small life events (like a compliment from an unqualified person) can lead us to such a huge life decision; especially when that "lead" is exactly where we are suppose to go, doing exactly what God created us to do.
I think about my own start and how I almost missed it. We switched youth group formats my sophomore year in high school, which really pissed me off because it sort of alienated a friend of mine I was bringing to church and trying my hardest to accept Jesus. The format switch though caused for a huge increase in the use of technology, and I was asked if I would do it. For the first week I protested the change and refused to be involved. I later reconsidered after I realized I had little choice in persuading him, and well, the rest was history...at 24 I now am a radio producer for something truly innovative.
Well that's about it, nothing too profound. I told the kids that grades aren't as important as everyone makes it (yeah I know, you think I am kidding but I am not), and that there is a difference in being successful in your career and being a successful person. We should all strive to be people of balance, keep faith first, trust God, and work as hard as we can at what we feel He created us to be.
P.S. Lissa, I am sorry, I know you are rolling your eyes at me right now. I promise I'll blog about how great of an attorney you will be one day. I just have to find the right fit and career day blog wasn't it - although you were mentioned now three times if you can spot it ;-)
P.P.S I am about 99.9% sure Emily doesn't read this blog, but if she does, she will kill me for using the above photo.
Andy: I can't help but think that there are few people that would make a better attorney than Emily
Fellow Former Spartan: I cannot think of a single person who would make a better attorney than Emily.
And you are not an attorney until you actually work hard to obtain the title.I am not claiming I was, nor would I disagree with that statement. Being an attorney, especially a good, honest one, is a very, very hard thing to surmount. I have the highest respect for those who go through it and make it out.
The truth is much larger life events shape our path and even more than that environment and family shape our path, not compliments from "unqualified" persons.I am not disagreeing with that by any means. But what I think is interesting about our life is that often times it is the little things, sometimes extremely little things, that get us where we are at. Which I think makes life very interesting. I think back on my own story, and it was a compliment from someone after I spoke publicly in front of 1,200 people my sophomore year that helped me accept my call into full time ministry.
And, if you do want to be an attorney, or any other career that requires more than a GED, grades are quite important.This is about the only thing I take issue with. It is this arrogance that drives me nuts, especially in the 21st century. Bill Gates, changed the world profoundly, was a college drop out. Albert Einstein wasn't a big fan either: "At school, Einstein clashed with authority and resented the school regimen, believing that the spirit of learning and creative thought were lost in such endeavors as strict rote learning." Glenn Davenport (you don't know him, but who I work very closely with, who used to be the CEO of Morrison Foods, a billion dollar health care company) is one of the most savvy business people I know, didn't graduate college. Mark Twain wrote some profoundly beautiful words when he said, "I never let my schooling get in the way of my education."
P.S. Emily should kill you for using that photo, and don't be so sure!I am not sure who you are (even though I know you are coming to us live from Michigan ;), but I can pretty much guarantee Emily doesn't read this. And if she does, who cares, the photo isn't a bad one. At least we both look happy - that was a fun trip. And if she doesn't like me using that photo, she can chose from the other one I have in digital format here.
I am not sure who you are (even though I know you are coming to us live from Michigan ;)Check that, I do know who you are. Nothing like photography in Mirador huh? :)
I thought you wrote “I can't help but think that there are a few people that would make a better attorney than Emily”, it was not clear that you thought she would make a great attorneyWell we all know I suck at grammar (should have taken some more classes in that ehhh ;) - especially since it is even weirder now that I am writing a book). So I probably could have worded that a little better
No, not every job requires exhaustive educational achievements, but those are not usually the dream job we strive for, it is usually the “runner-up”I get what you are saying, but still slightly disagree. There are plenty of jobs out there that are dream jobs that fit this category (i.e. mine). And the question of a "dream" job is really quite relative. I know (like you) growing up in SWAC, we were all told that we need to be doctor, or attorneys, or high-profile business people to have "our dream" job. But there are plenty of jobs out there that don't fit these categories that are still dream jobs.
I don’t care that much, but when you write about your opinions on a blog it is usually because you want people to read, absorb, and respond – to engage in discussion, so I thought I would.You are exactly correct about that. Whether it is this blog, the blog I maintain on my show (very similar posts), or my column on Newsvine, that is exactly what I am looking for: a discussion.
Experience in classes will trump grades any day!There you have it! Spoken direct from a teacher ;) P.S. I know Sarah has got to be lurking around here somewhere, and she will comment soon about how I am a cocky bastard for talking about my Outstanding Student Award and how it really doesn't mean much ;) When she does, she's right.
I spent all that time reading to try to figure out if knew the mystery spartan and you never truly revealed his/her identity. What a waste of my precious moments of peaceSorry, Drea, even though I figured out who it was, I still respect anyone who wants to stay anonymous, thus I have wasted your time, sorry ;)
A students become professors. B students become judges.That's great. I have never heard that before.
C students become millionaire lawyers.
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Watching the NLCS...with out my Cubbies |
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Looking forward to baseball tonight and seeing Pat tomorrow. |
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I think I realized tonight that I am getting old: a sore lower back and a realization that I shouldn't eat ice cream before bed. |
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My back is still killing me and since I don't have a hot tub I am taking my first bath in my home ever...I know that still makes me gay |
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http://twitpic.com/f7ff - Today was not a fun one...but this was a nice view leaving my office |
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My back is killing me... |
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It is raining and that makes me happy |
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Purchased tickets to Chicago to watch my brothers play! Another weekender and I am excited. |
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Watching the Hills, which pretty much means I am going to hell...or am I there already. I am not sure |
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At least the Angels could do what the Cubs did not...win a game! |
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